dis five daes ve been busy lyk siao. lao gong die le.. so sad lor.aniway, during the funeral, we were order here and dere.honestly, i dare sae no ppl dere out of the 124 ( excluding susan ah yi, ah ping gu gu , si chuan gu gu , of course us and the xiao gua ) ever care tt 'ohh. lao gong is dead'
onli the handful of us ever help in burning the wang sheng zi and folding the jin zi. the adults.ok. i dun denied they were sad tt their father/father-in-laws/granfather die but they jus hack care hack care de. leave everything fer us to do. all they noe is to gamble gamble and gamble.
toking abt burning and everything, we were not suppose to do all those thing lor..coz we are the great-grandaughters of lao gong. you noe. the zhong nan qing nv thing still haven change, so onli the sons can do dis thing. plus the great-granchildren arent suppose to burn aniwae..its the job of the sons and granson nia.
ok. to the burning part. well, we burn very fast den dis dono no. wad lao sim ( we got in total 12 lao sim and 4 lao gou and many many granchildren ) came in and sae her theory of burning. she sae if we burn too fast, lao gong will oso walk veri fast and den will be veri lei and blah blah..so cannot. mus one by one burn. but my gor sae no. if burn veri slowly, lao gong will get his money veri slowly. so cannot..mus burn fast.
den when we were folding the jin zi rite, lao gou came in and taught us to fold dis veri nice one and sae its $50. so we all jiu fold the so call $50 one so lao gong veri rich..den susan ah yi came in and ask wad we folding la..we told her $50. she immediately so nonono. we nv see dis "$50" before. if below dun accept how?? den mummy ans her. lao gong will sae 'my daughter sae $50 jiu $50 hor..' we were lyk laughing mad lor..aniwae, i wld lyk to express my astonishment tt we folded 24 bags ( the big black one ) of jin zi in jus two nite went we were given four. with all the break and serving the outside in the nite. o-my-god. we are simply fantastic.~vola~
as i sae. we use onli two daes to fold the jin zi so the other two daes ve to ban the tables and chairs and blah blah blah..veri tiring jiu shi liao..derefore, i prefer folding jin zi. in the nite ve to serve the visitor and everything. and worst of all, ah ma was lyk introducing us to all her friend which is lyk dozens of em..
yea! did i mention the xiao gua?!?! nvm. i'll do now. they damn cute lor.. gordon, terrence, natelie, zi qi, my small god cousin ( i duno her name.haha ), valarie, dis gerl dono her name too and xiao xin..onli one veri irritating one..feel lyk flushing her down the toilet bowl. her name is lydia i tink..heard her dad calling here..the rest hor..so damn ke ai lor..haha. you will be shock to noe tt gordon is half of qiqi age but size bigger den her.haha
ytd was cremation dae. was lyk shooting drama series liddat. was at the mandai cremation centre or wadeva la..lyk shopping centre wor..air-conditionated. everything auto one..not lyk four yrs ago ve to ji zi push the coffin one..aw, it was veri sad. i cried. its the moment lao gong was being push into the dono wad de shi hou, i cant explain the sadness in me. its lyk 'oh, i'll nv see lao gong again. his body or his soul, nv again' tt kind of feeling. lao gou nearly fainted. wadeva to sae, its been her taking care of lao gong dis past two yrs and being the youngest in the family, she was the most doted by lao gong.
lao gong now make his way to find first great-granmother. you noe. wed i said i receive the call saeing lao gong was dying and everybody rush down to jurong west?? it was the dae first great-granmother died fifteen yrs ago..the doc predicted lao gong to not survive tt veri nite and we kinda believe tt. we thought its the bonding between lao gong and first great-granma tt they wld die on the same dae but fifteen yrs ltr. but lao gong survive till sat.i got no idea did he or not die peacefully.coz not all his children came to see him for the last time.
next three yrs no new yr fer the 124 of us..its the xi su la..but bcoz im the great-granchildren, we can still celerate new yr at the other side which is daddy's side. but fer the sons and daughters cannot..im so sad. 7/8 of my every yr hong bao money came frm lao ma dere..now left 1/8 frm ah po dere..next yr will be poorer den dis yr.